The Past Month

Let me just re-cap on what has happened throughout the past month without boring anyone with the details:

-I finished my online training so I'm an official wedding/event planner.
-Jim and I went to a family Bar-Mitzvah in Philly.
-Drove down to Orlando to celebrate my dad's 50th birthday bash.
-And through it all gave thanks during Thanksgiving.
-Finally, I put up our Christmas tree, decorated it and wrapped presents to put under it. I love this season!!!!!

Nothing out of the ordinary. (Can you hear my sarcasm?!) I've been getting huge headaches and migraines more frequently in the past few months. In fact, I have a headache right now, but I've stopped telling people because I don't want to complain about them again. I went to the docs, and I have a follow up appointment this Monday. I might have to go be tested for "neurological testing" if anything gets worse. Personally, I think I'm fine. But truthfully, when am I going to have time to go do neurological testing? I'm so busy with work, which I can not complain about because I love my job and I feel truly blessed to be one of the few people in this world that look forward to going to work everyday.

Here's a random thought: A co-worker and I were having a discussion about when you're married you can't notice other attractive men. She turns to me and says, "Erin, you're married you're not blind. Just as long as you go home to him." Is this true? I don't know if Jim notices other girls, and if he did it really wouldn't bother me because he chose me. I think it's pretty normal to notice others. I don't know. Maybe not when you're married. I think it's this unmentionable thing you just do. Do other guys notice me? Or do other girls notice Jim? I haven't really thought about it until she said that to me. I've always been pretty oblivious when a guy was hitting on me. I mean if you want to hit on a girl, I think it would be really funny to go up to a girl and say, "I'm going to hit on you now. What would you like to hear?" OK, now I'm just rambling. Give me some feedback on this people.